Prostate Pleasure Techniques
Does the G-Spot for men really exist?
Yes, it does. This is about the prostate gland which only men have, it's also called the "P-Spot".
Here's a map of the male genital area.
The prostate is located around 4 to 5 cm inside the anus. Just beneath the urinary bladder, the prostate secretes milky white fluid which constitutes the biggest part of the semen. From the anus, you can feel a slightly harder part, like a tip of the nose. it's about as big as a walnut however, just like the female G-spot, it will be enlarged or more sensitive as it gets excited. Usually, the prostate gland will be more distinct when a man is in his mid 30's.
WHAT YOU CAN GET FROM PROSTATE MASSAGE?
Prostate massage was originally developed for medical purpose, to collect prostatic fluid and prevent prostatitis or urinate problems. At the same time, this involves a strong sensation. Usually the orgasm won't cause ejaculation (dry orgasm) so that men can have multiple orgasms. Some men can experience the orgasm instantly, some men needs some time to get one. However, if you feel pain when you massage the prostate, stop immediately and see a doctor. It might be prostatitis.
HOW TO STIMULATE THE PROSTATE GLAND?
The prostate can be reached from the anus so it can be difficult to find by his own finger. Try "Aneros", which is a tool that was invented as a medical device and is now widely sold as a men's self pleasuring tool.
They have varieties of sizes and shapes, and are anatomically designed especially for prostate massage.
Remember, you will need a bit of preparation to enjoy prostate play. It is very important to be ready and relaxed. Otherwise the anus will become stiff and it will be more difficult and painful. Clean up the rectum with an enema or an anal douche before and get ready without any worries. Taking a bath is a nice idea too.
If you massage his prostate gland, try to use disposable rubber gloves or a condom to protect his sensitive area from any damage by your finger nails. It's also useful for the sanitary purpose. Condoms are also good for use with an anal sex toy.
It's not a good idea to rush by inserting your finger into the anus. First, use plenty of lubricant on your finger and gently massage around the anus, then take your time for insertion.
The anus is ringed by a bunch of muscles, a man needs to be completely relaxed to loosen them. Then he will be ready to accept the insertion. To achieve this, communication, both verbally and physically, is very important. Ask your partner if he's totally ready and trust you, and whether you both can go for it without one-sided excitement.
Since the anus is not able to self lubricate, you definitely should use a lubricant. Start with a water-based lubricant or try a silicone-based lubricant when you desire longer lubrication.